So… today was a beautiful day for a ride.  The RenFair was decent. I
found some music there.

The day could have been better though. Mark didn’t even make it there
because his car broke down in Washington, PA.  When waiting for Dan and his
friend and Sharyn and her new love interest; I was at a Park-n-ride with my
B.I.L.  Ever since she told me about staying in Pittsburgh, my mind would not
let go of the idea of her spending the time and staying the night with him in
Pittsburgh.   When they pulled in, they all got off the bikes and introductions
were made.  As soon as Sharyn walked over, she hugged me and introduced me to
him. Then she picked something off my jacket and turned to run her fingers
through his hair because the helmet had mussed it.  He pushed it back down.
She showed him my wolf items and pulled up my jacket to point out my belt buckle
to him.  We all left there for the RenFest.

Upon arrival, she wanted pictures of everyone and then we went in.  As we
entered the main gate, a woman up above said something like, “Mum, when you’re
finished with that one, I’ll take him.” They were directly behind me, so I
don’t know what her face was like, but she patted my back and said, “This one is
available.”  At one point, when they met back up with us, somebody asked her
what they did. She said, “We walked around, ate, listened to music and
kissed.”

Later, as we were riding back, before they split off from us to head back to
Pittsburgh, she was making kissing gestures with her mouth toward him.

All of these things evoked reactions in me.  So, on the way home, I was
thinking about it.  I stopped to call her and left a message on her voice mail
that I can’t do this anymore. I told her I would like to be able to keep her
as a client and me be her client, but if not… that’s ok.  I’m not doing this
“friend” thing anymore.

It doesn’t work for me.  It just causes me more hurt.  I tried to do it with
the woman who broke my heart and it didn’t work then.I was somewhat different
than than this because I full-out loved her.  I’m not “in love” with Sharyn; but
I do have strong feelings for her.    But, I’m finding I just can’t be friends
with someone that I have romantic feelings for.  It just causes me hurt.

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